Sunday, March 17, 2013

Body Image: Fear and Loathing at the Checkout Counter



Every now and then when I pass a newsstand with women’s magazines, I feel a twinge of envy. I’m from the age when my favorite magazines focused on fashion, beauty, career, relationships and the latest exercise craze and diet. Now they include curvy women in fashion editorials and even explore the negative and positive side of body image. Marie Claire offers practical and fashionable advice with Big Girls in a Skinny World. Glamour’s real everyday women fashion photo spread includes curvy women. Even the High Priestess of Praying Mantis Fashion, Anna Wintour, throws a curvy model (their version) into an issue or two of Vogue.


However, my envy quickly dissipates once I lay eyes on the tabloid magazines with glossy cover images of celebrities and eye catching headlines. Today’s tabloids are a mix of celebrities, fashion, movies/music/television and plenty of gossip. Years ago men like my boyfriend feared conversations based on relationship article and tests their girlfriends or wives read in a woman’s magazine. Hey guys for the most part you’re off the hook. Nevertheless, you’ll still hear “we have to talk” on occasion. After all we’re still women and we love to talk about the state of our relationship. Unfortunately, “Does this fill in the blank make my butt look big?” has gone from a grenade to a minefield.

Traditional women’s fashion magazines are published monthly. The tabloids are published weekly and they are constantly shifting focus. One week, Guiliana Rancic is on the cover with the “scary skinny” caption. A week later, she’s the paragon of health and fitness. Reese Witherspoon graced a cover for her post baby body. A couple of weeks later, she’s at a spa to get rid of stubborn baby weight.

Kim Khardashian is pregnant. I’ve lost count of the number of magazines that are focused on her expanding waistline along with a current (baby bump) and pre-baby (bikini) photo. Another photo showed pregnant Kim in front of a gym with a caption that referred to a fear of getting fat. She is pregnant, right? She’s literally eating for two. She is supposed to gain weight. On a fashion note, Kim isn’t helping her cause. For God’s sake buy some maternity clothes! On a personal note at least maternity wear is fashionable now. I was pregnant in the eighties when the maternity section was basically versions of burlap sacks and house frau mu-mus with flowers or stripes. I burned my maternity clothes about a week after I had my sons. Now that I got that off my chest, is it any wonder that we have six year old girls that are afraid of getting fat?

We live in a country where generally bigger is considered better. Employees want big pay raises and promotions. Directors, producers and actors want big box office or big ratings. Businesses want big profits. Conversely, we are also a nation of extremes. There are shows that promote healthy cooking and shows based around bacon.  Television weight loss programs like The Biggest Loser and Dancing with the Stars which in my opinion is code for The Biggest Loser: The Celebrity Spandex and Sequins Edition. There’s a reason there are so many ads for antidepressants. 


I have nothing against making changes to live a healthier life. I think it’s necessary to eat well, exercise and get enough rest. I’m a cancer survivor with secondary progressive MS and Celiac disease. I get it. I’ve seen the statistics for obesity in America. I understand the correlation to health care costs. Nevertheless, why aren’t we just as concerned with being emotionally healthy when it comes to body image?

You have to get down to the root cause for why people overeat. For women it’s the message we get every time we pick up a magazine or glance at a tabloid. Perhaps it's time we reflect on the saying,  Physician Heal Thyself and apply it to our lives.

One must conclude that body image issues must be addressed from the inside out. If a healthy balance is achieved,  we’ll become tabloid bullet proof. However, celebrities, I am sorry to say that it won't stop the people who love gossip about plastic surgery or the latest secret romance or break up.  My boyfriend, Michael hates this saying but in this case it’s apropos, tabloids are considered a guilty pleasure. At the very least, I hope to put an end to body guilt











































Thursday, December 6, 2012

Weight Loss Obsession: Stop Before You Make Another Resolution




It’s the holiday season. The newsstands are filled with magazines with holiday entrĂ©es and cookie recipes. People arrive to visit bearing homemade treats, wines and spirits. Then there are the countless office holiday parties with a veritable feast for employee’s eyes and stomachs.


            Most of us go into the holiday season with our minds set on not overindulging. Some of us win that battle while others decide Carpe Diem and head straight for the chocolate fountain. We’re all aware of the obesity rate here in the United States and how it’s affected more than just our physical health; it affects our economy in terms of what money is spent for healthcare for diseases like Type 2 diabetes, hypertension and heart disease to name a few.

            I live with several conditions. I have MS, Celiac disease and hypertension. I am very conscious about what I eat but I am still a curvy woman. Yet I don’t belong to any weight loss program regardless of how many times I’ve seen their television ads. I subscribe to something called moderation combined with a gluten free diet due to Celiac disease.

            We are only a few weeks away from New Year’s Eve when everyone makes their resolutions and you can be sure that weight loss will be at the top of the list overall. By January 2nd all those weight loss ads will triple in air time and all those celebrities who embraced their curves in December will have been courted by a weight loss program or product to trim those curves they loved so much before Christmas. Then when we’ve been on the edge of our seats (or sometime around the fourth to sixth commercial) we’ll have the inevitable and magical reveal of their newly trim physiques. We have so much to look forward to.

            The reason I decided to write about this wasn’t to bash weight loss. I realize the importance of good health. I am just a little tired of the weight loss industry. It’s basically a business that in reality is based on more failure than success. A study led by UCLA associate professor of psychology Traci Mann, and reported in the American Psychologist in 2007, the journal of the American Psychological Association, essentially reported that the initial 5 to 10 percent of weight loss on any number of diets is eventually regained.

           


MSNBC followed up on contestants from several seasons of The Biggest Loser to see how they were doing after the finale. Some contestants kept most of the weight off with only minor fluctuations from their finale weigh in. However, most seemed to have gained the weight back and a few did that and then some. We have to take into account the fact that the way their weight loss was achieved was atypical. They had access to a nutritionist, personal trainers and the greatest motivator outside of getting healthy; there was a great big cash carrot at the end for the most weight lost.

Now that I’m north of forty plus, I wondered if I could use some of this wisdom that’s supposed to come with age to argue for a healthy, balanced approach to living well and not succumbing to a great sales pitch and sexy, slim celebrities and fabulous everyday people who lost weight and magically solved all their problems. The truth is weight can be a vicious cycle. Yo-yo dieting is worse than not dieting at all. Our bodies can only take so much and as we get older it take less and less.

Therefore, I say instead of making the standard resolution to lose fifty pounds before the first crocus peeks through the ground, set realistic goals you can live with and not eventually fight against. For example, if you live in a temperate climate begin with a 15 minute walk. If you live in a colder climate dust off the treadmill or other exercise equipment and do 15 minutes.

In terms of food unless you have an underlying condition and even if you don’t see your doctor and talk about what works for you. Together you can come up with something that makes the both of you happy. I’m lucky. My doctor knows that my hypertension is genetic. I am not and have never been a salt lover. I take medication and watch my diet. Diabetes runs in my family so I watch my carbohydrate intake. All of this is a lot of work but the first step is always the hardest.

By no means am I a skinny girl. I am a curvy woman and I’ve embraced it. I decided that I wanted to live life in the middle (moderation) lane. I won’t say that I don’t indulge now and then but what’s life without a least a trip or two to the chocolate fountain. Enjoy!


Happy Holidays




Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Time to tell the Politicians that The Election Is Over and It's Time To Work



I’m sure many people are relieved now that the election is over. Voting is a very personal thing but now that you’ve cast your vote it’s been made clear that the people have spoken and President Obama was re-elected for a second term.

Prior to the election, I posted my thoughts and views on the choice we had before us. Therefore, you know that I’m one of the many minority voters who felt that President Obama was right choice.

This Saturday is December 1st which means that the election has been over for nearly a month. Yet Washington is back to playing politics with the fiscal cliff/curb that will affect the lives of the American people.

With his victory, President Obama secured a mandate or political capital (as George W Bush called it in 2004), which means he can say that he doesn’t want a deal that doesn’t include not raising taxes on the middle class, who can’t afford it. He wants to raise taxes on the 2%, who can afford it to pay their share. The top 2% has paid lower tax rates long enough. I know we’ve heard the reasoning that they are the job creators but time has shown that simply isn’t the truth. The trickle down theory doesn’t work.

The idea that politicians are still playing around with this is ridiculous. This isn’t a dress rehearsal, this is real life and their action and inaction have consequences that affect all of us. After seeing what some members of the 2% spent on supporting Romney, it’s obvious they had the money to burn so paying a higher tax rate shouldn’t cause them to sweat.

Regardless of what some people may think, the job creators are small business owners. Small business has been the backbone of this country for some time. While they aren’t as large as the big corporations, they employ more people, which is why President Obama proposed lower tax rates for them too.

If you have had enough of the political side show, go to the websites of the members of the House and Senate of your state and tell them to work with the President to hammer out a deal that won’t screw the majority. Although we’re not wealthy, we have the power of the vote. The truth is time moves very quickly and two years isn’t as far off as they’d like to think. I remember my 20th birthday. I thought that forty was a whole twenty years away and I had plenty of time to achieve my goals. Now I am north of forty and an AARP membership is inching ever closer. Although the Rolling Stones sang Time Is On My Side, it clearly isn’t. We don’t have to behave like old people but we do need to recognize that if we’re lucky enough to age, we have to think about our future and that includes; Social Security, Medicare and other programs that aid us to live our best lives as we get older. Therefore the midterm elections are closer than most politicians think. Remember what happened in 2010? Not only do we remember, many of us have seen the errors of our votes and the errors of the people we put in office. Therefore, when it’s time to run for their seats again there may be a different outcome once voters leave the booth.

I encourage everyone who is of age to vote to take a little time and let your voice be heard. Susan Rice is just a diversion. I am truly sorry for the tragedy in Benghazi and the lives lost. I don’t take that lightly. However, another woman with the last name Rice went in front of law makers and the world to push the war in Iraq based on weapons of mass destruction that didn’t exist, which has led to the longest 2 wars America’s ever been involved in and cost many soldiers to lose their lives to serve our country.

Together let’s tell our politicians to stop the madness and get to the table to work out a real deal to keep us going. Not only are we watching but now that we have a global economy the world is watching too. If you don’t believe me check out the Dow, investors are worried in the American and foreign markets.

Monday, November 19, 2012

Tabloid Weight Stories-Sending Mixed Messages to Women

Like so many people, I see the enormous number of tabloid magazines in bookstores, supermarket checkout counters, pharmacy check out counters and countless other places. Once again, I glanced at the cover of In Touch Weekly with Kourtney Khardashian and Scott Dissick. Normally I look at it for a moment and keep going. However, this time a caption about Adele that caught my eye. I actually opened the magazine to read the article as I am a fan of Adele.

After I read the article,I noticed a theme that made me take action and write the magazine. Whether or not anyone will pay attention to it, I have no idea. But I put it out there in the universe. I thought I'd share it with you.

In TouchWeekly





I picked up the November 26th issue of In Touch Weekly. I was particularly interested in the articles that featured Adele, Kelly Clarkson and the crop of Hollywood celebrities who are too skinny.

I commend your magazine for covering both side of the aisle, so to speak. However, I feel that you may be sending mixed messages to young women and women who are north offorty like me. As you know, there has been a marked increased of eating disorders in middle age women.

My name is Chamein Canton. I’m a curvy novelist and wedding writer. I refer to my novels as curvy girl romances and still a chick lit for women over 40 who haven’t handed in their chick card for hormones, hot flashes or bifocals. I’ve written 6 novels Not His Type, Bliss Inc,. The More Things Change, Waiting for Mr. Darcy, Mixed Reality and I Take This Woman. When Down That Aisle In Style A Wedding GuideFor Full Figured Women (WindRiver Publishing) was released in 2006, I became an expert and appeared on The Insider, Get Married with David Tutera,The Today Show in New York, Eyewitness News Channel 7 Sunday edition and Fios’Push Pause. I’ve also worked on Newsday’s’ Bridal Planner twice

Body imageis what propels me to continue to write and contribute to newspapers and magazines about curvy women. I wasn’t always so evolved. For years I obsessed over the scale. I did some pretty stupid and dangerous things to lose weight. It took being diagnosed with cancer at 23 to put things into proper perspective. My obsession didn’t just take a backseat; I threw it out of the window.

Cancer changed me. I learned that in the end all that mattered was love and not size. The key to feeling and looking beautiful begins with self love; a love that includes body acceptance, setting realistic goals for your body and living a healthy lifestyle.

Now as a woman living with secondary progressive MS, I use my novels to help empower women to embrace their bodies and not be afraid to take chances in life and love. I made plus size the main character and love interest instead of taking on a second banana role (friend, mother).

I was affected by Hurricane Sandy and like many others it changed my life. I have learned to appreciate the small things in life like electricity, food, heat and I really value family and friends more than ever before. I know when the hurricane hit, they weren't concerned with how I looked, they worried that we were all right and what they could do to help.

To that end, though you cover entertainment, I would love to read about curvy celebs who have truly embraced their body and are grateful for the many blessings celebrity has given them. I believe we’ve seen one too many “proud curvy celebrities” jump off the bandwagon when Weight Watchers, Nutrisystem or Jenny Craig calls.

Thank you for your time.

Best regards,

Sunday, October 28, 2012

Women in the 2012 Election- The Sound and The Fury

There is quite a bit riding on this election from the economy to education. However, one of the most important issues is one that has to do with more than half the population, women's rights.

A number of candidates have brought the issue of rape and contraception to the fore. There have been many references to God's will. Admittedly, I am not u

p on biblical verses as some but I do remember something from the Old Testament, Deuteronomy 22:25-27

King James Version (KJV)

25 But if a man find a betrothed damsel in the field, and the man force her, and lie with her: then the man only that lay with her shall die.

26 But unto the damsel thou shalt do nothing; there is in the damsel no sin worthy of death: for as when a man riseth against his neighbour, and slayeth him, even so is this matter:

27 For he found her in the field, and the betrothed damsel cried, and there was none to save her.

I am using the King James version as that seems to be the most commonly quoted. As to the last verse, apparently if a woman was raped in a field and no one was heard her cries for help, that woman wouldn't be subjected to punishment because if someone heard her cries then the rapist would be subjected to the punishment of death (usually by stoning). Though unstated the sin of rape isn't washed away from the rapist, I can only assume that his judgment will come by way of a higher power.

I suppose that's why I find the term legitimate rape or a child that is born out of an act of violence as God's will so perplexing when it comes out of the mouths of men.

When Akin said a woman's body can do something to stop the pregnancy from occurring in this situation, I was astounded. I personally call it the Dorothy's Wizard of Oz theory. If a woman who is being raped just closes her eyes and kicks her heels together three times. Poof! She's back home with her little dog. If we take rape out of the conversation, it almost sounds like a form of contraception. Oops! Forgot my pill or the condom broke. No worries. All I have to do is summon my super reproductive powers and stop nature in its tracks.

This goes beyond red or blue. It's about protecting our young women. I've had an experience with sexual abuse and though it happened ages ago it only takes a moment for me to go back and relive it.

Our daughters, sisters, aunts, cousins and grandmothers are at risk. Make no mistake there is nothing sexual about rape, the act is sex, the takeaway is violence. With so many girls beginning menses at young ages, we must do all we can to stand on the side of protecting them from this heinous act.

Who among us sincerely believes that if an eleven year-old is raped and becomes pregnant it's God's will? It's time to send a clear message to those who would prefer us barefoot, pregnant with no voice. I can assure you that we will exercise our vocal chords in the voting booth on November 6th. It's true that Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. However, Hell truly hath no fury when our gender is ignored and underrated.

North of Forty Plus- Let’s boil this election down to our nation’s obsession, weight loss


When I was younger, I always said  my mother was the queen of the abject lesson no matter the subject.  Like many of you, I am getting election overload. There are countless pundits, polls and articles written to help us better understand what this Presidential election means. Unfortunately, some of the information has managed to confuse more people than enlighten them.

According to an article on www.abcnews.com  the weight loss programs, pills and everything in between is a 10 billion dollar a year business. Frankly, it’s modeled on failure to keep weight off once lost. Therefore, continuing a vicious yet profitable cycle.

When President Obama took office in 2009, America was in crisis. In fact it was too big to fail. After nearly twelve years of feasting at the all you can eat buffet, America had a real weight problem (financially speaking). The fact is the weight didn’t balloon overnight. It was a gradual process, one that previous administrations were quick to ignore until they couldn’t.

This is something I feel many people can relate to when it comes to gaining weight. No one goes to sleep one night and wakes up 25 pounds heavier in the morning. Weight gain is more insidious. A couple of pounds here and there over time add up. Once we are aware of the problem, we look for quick fixes to get the weight off, which is the wrong move. We didn’t gain the weight overnight so it will take time and discipline to lose weight.

Given the tools President Obama had, he was already at a deficit. When he was elected the Republican Party came out and said we’re going to make him a one term President. That’s the equivalent of being assigned to a Weight Watcher’s or Jenny Craig counselor whose main goal is to keep you fat. Therefore the President knew it was going to take time and made steady moves to lose the fat and keep it off. American hasn’t regained its fighting weight but we’re closer than we were four years ago.

People who lose and keep weight off successfully have done so by maintaining realistic goals, following a plan, making allowances for the occasional off day and exercising regularly. President Obama has followed a similar course and whether you want to believe it or not, it’s working.

Governor Romney hasn’t laid out a plan for how he exactly plans to improve the economy. Although he alludes to exemptions and deductions, he has no clear plan to cut the fat out, which in this case is at the top (1%). Instead he reminds me of an infomercial host or as my great grandmother would say, a snake oil salesman. He puts on that smile, holds up a bottle and says it contains the elixir to cure the country. Just vote for him, he’ll unleash its magical powers and Poof! America's pot belly and love handles will be gone. I don’t care how late you stay up at night very few people would pick up the phone and plunk down their hard earned money for something so obviously phony. I hate to say but while Governor Romney isn’t asking for your money, he’s looking for something far more priceless, your vote. Unfortunately under his plan (what he’s revealed) it will wind up costing far more dollars in taxes for the already overburdened middle class.

North of Forty- What the 2012 elections means for Generation X and beyond






North of Forty- What the 2012 elections means for Generation X and beyond


When there is talk of the election much is made of the senior and Baby Boomer vote with little attention paid to Generation X or the Millennials that will eventually have to deal with the frightening reality that is the Romney/Rand ( I mean Ryan. Freudian slip)  ticket. Again this isn’t a matter of red and blue. It’s a matter of the wealthy who don’t want to pay more for their lavish lifestyles but have no problem heaping the burden on the middle class.

I’m quite sure Mr. Ryan and Governor Romney studied the Enlightenment but I get the distinct feeling that they’ve forgotten the lessons learned from the American Revolution when the colonies took issue with the monarchy. Moreover, they haven’t learned the lessons from the French Revolution when after years of rule by a monarchy that favored the aristocracy a seething hatred bred throughout France. Once ruled by The Sun King, who was an absolute despot who built Versailles on the back of the peasants set in motion a blood soaked revolution where even the king and queen lost their heads…literally.

 I found an article to share that I found spoke to me. I hope you give it some thought too.

7 Ways Paul Ryan Wants to Betray His Fellow Generation X-ers

The Peter Pan of American conservatism is bursting with immature, half-baked ideas for the country. By Lynn Stuart Parramore http://www.alternet.org/election-2012/7-ways-paul-ryan-wants-betray-his-fellow-generation-x-ers?page=0%2C2&paging=off


August 30, 2012  |  
Last Wednesday in Tampa, Paul Ryan launched himself as the youthful face of his party, and much as been made of what he means to that ship of restless, and by now, somewhat battered, souls that sailed forth onto the American scene between the mid-'60s and mid-'70s. Is he truly a Gen Xer or not? His risk-taking, nose-thumbing at authority and taste for AC/DC and Led Zeppelin fit the image, but in many ways, he bears scant resemblance to his generational compatriots. His rigid political stance, for example, is atypical of a generation famous for its skepticism of institutions and party lines. And his white-bread-dipped-in-mayonnaise style is at odds with many of today’s multiculturally hip late 30- and 40-somethings.
But there’s one key way that Ryan fits a common negative image of Gen X: His is a case of seriously arrested development.
Ryan and I are exactly the same age. I attended the University of Georgia from 1988-'92, when young people were leaning toward the GOP. The political message of unapologetic self-interest was happy news to young folks, dudes in particular, who rejected the Baby Boomers’ collective ethos and really didn’t want to share their toys.
Most of my classmates were decidedly apolitical. Weaned on Watergate, Gen X had seen one disappointing charade in Washington after another, and largely concluded that politics was the realm of snake oil and empty spectacle. Alternative music, technology, entrepreneurial projects, and travel, particularly to post-Communist Europe, were the hot topics. Nearly anything but politics, which seemed unworthy of anyone’s time.
The first Gulf War got a minority of Gen Xers energized – a fact that has largely disappeared from memory. In 1991, a small group of UGA students pitched tents amid the stately neoclassical buildings of north campus to protest. Michael Kirven, co-founder of Bluewolf, a global technology consulting firm, was among them. I spoke to him about what motivated him at the time:
“This was the first issue where I felt like I could do something to make an impact,” Kirven recalls. “You had a clear sense that you could make your case: you were either in favor of the conflict, or against it.” He recalls the hostile environment, the round-the-clock police presence necessary to protect the protesters from angry hecklers. “From 5pm until midnight there was a non-stop parade of people not just disagreeing with us, but angry,” Kirven says. “A few wanted to have meaningful dialogue, but most of them just shouted. They threw things.”
At UGA, the war protesters were outnumbered by the Paul Ryan types, who welcomed the Gulf War as a chance to show off their muscular view of America, forged in the crucible of the Reagan Revolution. They were the Alex Keatons who worshipped wealth and conservative economics, the chicken hawk brigade that loudly supported a war they would never have signed up to fight themselves. Later represented in the punditocracy by the bow-tied Tucker Carlson and his ilk, they favored the novels of Ayn Rand, in which they saw themselves vindicated as misunderstood geniuses surrounded by mediocrity.
Paul Ryan, voted “Biggest Brown-Noser” in high school and born with enough money for Colorado ski trips and a surefire job at his family’s construction company, embraced libertarianism in college, where he interned with Wisconsin senator Bob Kasten and volunteered on the congressional campaign of John Boehner. Clutching his copy of The Fountainhead or driving the Oscar Mayer Wienermobile for a summer job, Ryan’s High Dork partly explains why so many of today’s pundits either give him a pass or pretend that he is a guy with serious ideas. Many of them are also dorks, harboring adolescent fantasies of their own misunderstood genius, hoping that no one will notice the superficiality of their thinking. Paul Ryan is their man – an intellectual slacker whose musings would not hold up for five minutes in a graduate seminar.
Paul Ryan’s politics have long since diverged from those of his generation, which gradually shifted toward the Democratic Party over the last two decades and manifests values that are left of most of what Paul Ryan stands for. (Gen X-ers leaned Republican by 5 percentage points in 1990, but in 2008 they favored the Democratic Party by 7 percentage points.) Ryan, however, seems to be stuck in the Reagan era, his jingoism and simplistic economic ideas amped up with an infusion of Tea Party fanaticism.
When you were in college in those days, if you were left-leaning and sought enlightenment, you read the mystic novels of Herman Hesse and Fritjof Capra’s The Tao of Physics (my own copy is floating around out there somewhere in a second-hand bookstore, complete with giddy marginalia). If you were right-leaning and sought self-gratification, you read Atlas Shrugged and talked about the sublimity of selfishness. In either case, you grew up. You began to separate the wise from the wacky, and you gradually understood what was original and what was merely derivative. You tested your ideas on the stage of tough experience. You evolved.
But Paul Ryan, until very, very recently, was still clutching his copies of Ayn Rand, making his staff read them and giving them away as presents. Rand's philosophy, a justification for continuing adolescent selfishness into adulthood, seldom sounds reasonable to people over 25. But Ryan was singing its praises at 40.
A successful businessman today, Michael Kirven admits that he has changed a lot since college, but wonders about Ryan. “I don’t feel like a guy like Ryan has had any evolution of ideas since his youth,” says Kirven. “My political views are inconsistent. I agree with Obama on some things, Romney on others. I could even find something to agree with in Herman Cain. But Ryan is just dogmatic. Maybe he doesn’t have the intellectual capacity for more complex thought. He really turns me off.”
Ryan has exhibited a disdain for Gen X, and the feeling is often mutual.
In a recent New York Times piece, 42-year-old Shane Smith, a founder of Vice, summed up a prevailing feeling of embarrassment at Mitt Romney’s choice of running mate among Xers: “I just wish that a Reaganite-friend-of-the-Tea-Party-frat-boy-jock was not our first poster boy.” Even Ryan’s music heroes, like Tom Morello, guitarist from Rage Against the Machine, have rejected him. (Jimmy Page, where are you?)
Instead of learning from the financial crash of 2008, Ryan is doubling down on the failed economic strategies of deregulation, budget cutting, and trickle-down that have sent inequality soaring and crushed the middle class. He is still talking about “makers v. takers,” the classic Ayn Rand formulation that presents the world as a black-and-white stage of good businessmen and bad everybody else.
Ryan’s discomfort with Gen X may spring from a very deep reason: He has big plans to sell us out. X has already suffered expectations of downward mobility, horrific recessions, job insecurity and the capture of government by corporate interests. Ryan seems to be a guy who plans to add insult to injury and deliver his generation an extra sharp kick in the teeth as we face the daunting challenges of middle age in a crappy economy.
On almost any topic you can name, Paul Ryan has a plan to betray the values and beliefs of his age group. Most alarmingly, he is bent on stealing our future. Let us count the ways that Paul Ryan is out to screw Gen X.
1. Who, Me Retire?
When you hit 40, you tend to start thinking about your retirement. Currently, the lack of job security, pensions, union-crushing and decent retirement plans make this sort of thinking panic-inducing for Gen X.
Paul Ryan’s economic plans would shift the burden of Medicare to Gen X in the future by turning the program into a voucher plan. And if he has anything to do with it, we can kiss any safety net in our golden years goodbye. Gen X has long been suspicious that they will never receive Social Security. But it’s not because the program is in fiscal trouble (contrary to popular belief, it isn’t). It’s because sneaky politicians like Ryan would dismantle the program under the pretense of crisis so that the bankers can skim fees off of private accounts. He has advocated the partial privatization of Social Security – an idea which ought to have been swept away in the massive stock market crash of 2008. But Ryan, his star permanently in retrograde, was advocating handing our retirement to Wall Street in 2010. He dropped that exceedingly dumb idea in his current budget for the sake of political expediency, but his consistent worship of the so-called free market suggests that he hasn’t really changed his mind.
2. She-Orientation
The women of Gen X have made tremendous economic strides, and these tech-savvy, entrepreneurial and often exhausted ladies have been at the forefront of the work/life balance movement, seeking a decent existence for their families and reasonable returns on hard work. Is that too much to ask? Apparently.
Paul Ryan lingers in the Stone Age. He has consistently voted against workplace equity for women, opposing the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, which makes it easier for women to file wage-discrimination lawsuits. Ryan is vehemently against a woman’s right to decide whether or not to terminate a pregnancy – oblivious to the fact that control over reproduction is a key element in women’s economic well-being and fair participation in the workforce. “I’m as pro-life as a person gets,” he boasted in 2012.
Ryan has tried to block access to abortion even in the case of rape. Along with swamp creature Todd Akin, he co-sponsored a bill that would have narrowed the definition of rape to restrict the number of poor women who can terminate a pregnancy through Medicaid. All told, he has co-sponsored more than three dozen anti-choice bills, and his budget would end all government financing for Planned Parenthood while throwing prenatal care and infant nutrition under the bus.
3. Reverse Robin Hood
At a time of the worst income inequality since the Gilded Age, Paul Ryan wants to give more tax breaks to the wealthiest Americans. If he had his way, the U.S. would eliminate all taxes on corporate profits, capital gains and dividends. He rejected a White House proposal for a minimum tax on millionaires, calling it “class warfare.”
Ryan claims that he would cut tax rates for all families, but that’s cold comfort for Gen Xers trying to secure or maintain their position in the middle class. Even after the Bush tax cuts, Ryan's reductions would only amount to about $1,000 a year for families with annual incomes between $50,000 and $75,000. And for rich people with incomes above $1 million? They get a windfall of $250,000 a year. Ryan says he would pay for these cuts by scaling back tax breaks. But he is also committed to maintaining low taxes on capital gains, a big source of income for the wealthy. Most of the other big tax breaks — like the mortgage interest deduction and pension and health tax benefits — help the middle class. Rest assured that any attempt to broaden the tax base without raising taxes on capital income would almost inevitably sock it to middle-class families. And if those middle-class tax breaks were not slashed to pay for Ryan's high-income tax cuts, other spending would have to be reduced further  — which would also screw the middle class.
4. Out of Sync on Gay Rights
Paul Ryan is very much at odds with his age group on gay issues. He's against same-sex marriage, despite the fact that a recent Pew Research Poll found that support for allowing same-sex marriage has increased among Gen X from 44 percent in 2008 to 52 percent in 2012.
Ryan supports a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage, and voted against the repeal of the military’s unfair don’t-ask, don’t-tell policy. In 2009, he voted against expanding the federal hate crimes act to include brutality based on sexual orientation.
Ryan believes that gay Americans are unfit to adopt children, and in 2007 he broke with his party to support a bill outlawing job discrimination based on sexual orientation.
5. Enjoy Your McJob
Gen Xers are often viewed as unmotivated slackers with McJobs. In reality, they have faced extreme job insecurity caused by trickle-down economic theories, offshoring, union-busting, a corporate-friendly political climate, and the pervasive myth of shareholder value, which falsely holds that a corporation's only duty is to shareholders, rather than to workers or to society.
Amazingly, the Ryan budget does not include any provisions to create jobs immediately. And he wants to throw fire on the insecure employment trend of his generation and turn us into helpless wage slaves as fast as he can. He wants the Federal Reserve to focus solely on inflation (that’s conservative code for “keeping down wages”) and to abandon its mandate to bolster employment.
Despite the hardship in his own congressional district, Ryan voted against extending unemployment benefits on the pretext that it would add more than “one dime to the deficit,” when in fact, those benefits actually help reduce the deficit by providing income and tax revenues to the economy.
6. Environmental Laggard
A 2011 Pew poll showed that while not quite as enthusiastic as Gen Y, Gen X is more likely than older generations (particularly the so-called Silent Generation) to support clean energy and environmental protection and to believe climate change is occurring and is the result of human activity. Sixty-nine percent of Gen Xers advocate concentrating on developing alternative energy sources rather than expanding oil, coal and natural gas exploration. And they believe in tough rules and regulations.
But Paul Ryan is an environmental dinosaur. His lack of support for clean energy and climate change programs is well known, and has angered environmentalists. He has been in favor of cutting the budgets of conservation programs and eliminating White House climate advisers. Ryan receives big donations from the oil and gas industries and gets major support from the Koch brothers – two of the nation’s biggest polluters. The League of Conservation Voters gave him a dreadful 3 percent rating on its 2011 National Environmental Scorecard.
7. Old-Time Religion
Gen Xers were born in the wake of the Second Vatican Council in 1965, which transformed the Catholic Church for the modern world. They started out as the most Catholic generational group in American history, with one-third identifying as Catholics in 1990. But by 2010, about one in five had turned from the faith. It was only because one million Latino Catholics was added to the Gen X roster that 26 percent of Gen Xer are Catholics today.
Even though they reached adulthood as the Christian Right was asserting influence on the national stage, polls show that Gen X has become less Christian as they have grown up. But not Paul Ryan. He bills himself as a staunchly conservative Catholic, and would very much like to foist his beliefs on the rest of us. And yet even Catholics have trouble with him: The U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) has denounced him for aiming to cut programs that help the poor and shovel money toward the rich.
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In reviewing Ayn Rand’s Atlas Shrugged in the National Review in 1957, the famed conservative writer Whitaker Chambers decried the book’s stridency and ludicrously simplistic notions: “It is when a system of materialist ideas presumes to give positive answers to real problems of our real life that mischief starts.”
Paul Ryan is nothing more than a smirky, overwrought boy full of mischief, who never wants to grow up and face the realities and complexities of life. Unfortunately, the shallow mental waters in which he swims have bred dangerous sharks that will feed on the achievements and security of his own generation. The college dork has evolved into an arrogant, screw-you-over-with-a-smile jerk who peddles piggishness and calls it “prosperity.”
And you wonder why Gen X never really trusted politicians.


About the author: Dr. Lynn Parramore is an AlterNet senior editor. She is cofounder of Recessionwire, founding editor of New Deal 2.0, and author of 'Reading the Sphinx: Ancient Egypt in Nineteenth-Century Literary Culture.' She received her Ph.D in English and Cultural Theory from NYU, where she has taught essay writing and semiotics. Parramore is a frequent commenter on political, economic and cultural topics on television, radio, and web outlets. She is the Director of AlterNet's New Economic Dialogue Project. Follow her on Twitter @LynnParramore.