Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Time to tell the Politicians that The Election Is Over and It's Time To Work



I’m sure many people are relieved now that the election is over. Voting is a very personal thing but now that you’ve cast your vote it’s been made clear that the people have spoken and President Obama was re-elected for a second term.

Prior to the election, I posted my thoughts and views on the choice we had before us. Therefore, you know that I’m one of the many minority voters who felt that President Obama was right choice.

This Saturday is December 1st which means that the election has been over for nearly a month. Yet Washington is back to playing politics with the fiscal cliff/curb that will affect the lives of the American people.

With his victory, President Obama secured a mandate or political capital (as George W Bush called it in 2004), which means he can say that he doesn’t want a deal that doesn’t include not raising taxes on the middle class, who can’t afford it. He wants to raise taxes on the 2%, who can afford it to pay their share. The top 2% has paid lower tax rates long enough. I know we’ve heard the reasoning that they are the job creators but time has shown that simply isn’t the truth. The trickle down theory doesn’t work.

The idea that politicians are still playing around with this is ridiculous. This isn’t a dress rehearsal, this is real life and their action and inaction have consequences that affect all of us. After seeing what some members of the 2% spent on supporting Romney, it’s obvious they had the money to burn so paying a higher tax rate shouldn’t cause them to sweat.

Regardless of what some people may think, the job creators are small business owners. Small business has been the backbone of this country for some time. While they aren’t as large as the big corporations, they employ more people, which is why President Obama proposed lower tax rates for them too.

If you have had enough of the political side show, go to the websites of the members of the House and Senate of your state and tell them to work with the President to hammer out a deal that won’t screw the majority. Although we’re not wealthy, we have the power of the vote. The truth is time moves very quickly and two years isn’t as far off as they’d like to think. I remember my 20th birthday. I thought that forty was a whole twenty years away and I had plenty of time to achieve my goals. Now I am north of forty and an AARP membership is inching ever closer. Although the Rolling Stones sang Time Is On My Side, it clearly isn’t. We don’t have to behave like old people but we do need to recognize that if we’re lucky enough to age, we have to think about our future and that includes; Social Security, Medicare and other programs that aid us to live our best lives as we get older. Therefore the midterm elections are closer than most politicians think. Remember what happened in 2010? Not only do we remember, many of us have seen the errors of our votes and the errors of the people we put in office. Therefore, when it’s time to run for their seats again there may be a different outcome once voters leave the booth.

I encourage everyone who is of age to vote to take a little time and let your voice be heard. Susan Rice is just a diversion. I am truly sorry for the tragedy in Benghazi and the lives lost. I don’t take that lightly. However, another woman with the last name Rice went in front of law makers and the world to push the war in Iraq based on weapons of mass destruction that didn’t exist, which has led to the longest 2 wars America’s ever been involved in and cost many soldiers to lose their lives to serve our country.

Together let’s tell our politicians to stop the madness and get to the table to work out a real deal to keep us going. Not only are we watching but now that we have a global economy the world is watching too. If you don’t believe me check out the Dow, investors are worried in the American and foreign markets.

Monday, November 19, 2012

Tabloid Weight Stories-Sending Mixed Messages to Women

Like so many people, I see the enormous number of tabloid magazines in bookstores, supermarket checkout counters, pharmacy check out counters and countless other places. Once again, I glanced at the cover of In Touch Weekly with Kourtney Khardashian and Scott Dissick. Normally I look at it for a moment and keep going. However, this time a caption about Adele that caught my eye. I actually opened the magazine to read the article as I am a fan of Adele.

After I read the article,I noticed a theme that made me take action and write the magazine. Whether or not anyone will pay attention to it, I have no idea. But I put it out there in the universe. I thought I'd share it with you.

In TouchWeekly





I picked up the November 26th issue of In Touch Weekly. I was particularly interested in the articles that featured Adele, Kelly Clarkson and the crop of Hollywood celebrities who are too skinny.

I commend your magazine for covering both side of the aisle, so to speak. However, I feel that you may be sending mixed messages to young women and women who are north offorty like me. As you know, there has been a marked increased of eating disorders in middle age women.

My name is Chamein Canton. I’m a curvy novelist and wedding writer. I refer to my novels as curvy girl romances and still a chick lit for women over 40 who haven’t handed in their chick card for hormones, hot flashes or bifocals. I’ve written 6 novels Not His Type, Bliss Inc,. The More Things Change, Waiting for Mr. Darcy, Mixed Reality and I Take This Woman. When Down That Aisle In Style A Wedding GuideFor Full Figured Women (WindRiver Publishing) was released in 2006, I became an expert and appeared on The Insider, Get Married with David Tutera,The Today Show in New York, Eyewitness News Channel 7 Sunday edition and Fios’Push Pause. I’ve also worked on Newsday’s’ Bridal Planner twice

Body imageis what propels me to continue to write and contribute to newspapers and magazines about curvy women. I wasn’t always so evolved. For years I obsessed over the scale. I did some pretty stupid and dangerous things to lose weight. It took being diagnosed with cancer at 23 to put things into proper perspective. My obsession didn’t just take a backseat; I threw it out of the window.

Cancer changed me. I learned that in the end all that mattered was love and not size. The key to feeling and looking beautiful begins with self love; a love that includes body acceptance, setting realistic goals for your body and living a healthy lifestyle.

Now as a woman living with secondary progressive MS, I use my novels to help empower women to embrace their bodies and not be afraid to take chances in life and love. I made plus size the main character and love interest instead of taking on a second banana role (friend, mother).

I was affected by Hurricane Sandy and like many others it changed my life. I have learned to appreciate the small things in life like electricity, food, heat and I really value family and friends more than ever before. I know when the hurricane hit, they weren't concerned with how I looked, they worried that we were all right and what they could do to help.

To that end, though you cover entertainment, I would love to read about curvy celebs who have truly embraced their body and are grateful for the many blessings celebrity has given them. I believe we’ve seen one too many “proud curvy celebrities” jump off the bandwagon when Weight Watchers, Nutrisystem or Jenny Craig calls.

Thank you for your time.

Best regards,