Friday, January 31, 2014

It's February and it's all about love





                February may be the shortest month of the year, but it packs a lot into a mere 28 or 29 (Leap Year) days with Black History Month and Valentine’s Day.

                Yet, love is more than flowers, chocolates, cards and jewelry. Love has played a role in moving society forward. Love for freedom led America’s First Continental Congress to come together to fight for life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness as a sovereign nation. Freedom and love for their fellow men moved abolitionists to action to rid the land of slavery.

                Generations of slaves, whether separated from their families or not, continued to show love and faith under unbearable conditions. Even as echoes of The Middle Passage and life on plantations and in the fields of cotton reverberated, slaves lifted their voices in songs of faith and love to keep going. It’s found in the lyrics of many spirituals like Jacob’s Ladder.

                The Civil War tested the love of the Union as the brothers took up arms against each other in the bloodiest war ever fought on our soil. Again, we find echoes of love letters from soldiers to their families, wives and sweethearts on the Confederate and Union side. While committed to the fight, their longing to get back to the people they held dear was palpable. Although there was a measure of uncertainty when the war ended as to how the Confederate (rebels) would be treated, there was no indication that Lincoln planned to make them suffer. Unfortunately an assassin’s bullet made sure we’d never know,

                In the years followed, our country has experienced wartime. World War I and II tested our love for our nation as we partnered with our allies against tyranny across the Globe. Then there was the invisible war in America that was a part of the long journey for Civil Rights for African Americans, many of whom lived in the Jim Crow south and dealt with the indignity of second class citizen treatment. The Civil Rights Movement shined the light on injustice peacefully in the face of outright brutality.  Keep Your Eyes on the Prize has transcended Civil Rights to include women and the LGBT community.

                When President Obama gave his State of the Union Address, he did so in a somewhat lighthearted yet serious manner. He addressed issues that concern everyone regardless of race; extending unemployment benefits, raising the minimum wage, healthcare, jobs and taking care of veterans and wounded soldiers. In an odd way, it’s a Valentine to the American people to let us know that our love for this country is reciprocal.
                Think about that when you order flowers, pick up a card, get a gift or make a reservation for a romantic dinner remember the words of Lennon and McCartney, All You Need Is Love. Love is all you need for everyone.

Wednesday, January 15, 2014

Use Romance Novels to live and love your best life


Romance novels are often the butt of many literary jokes. However, romance gets to laugh all the way to the bank as it is the most popular fiction genre. Others may blame these novels for setting unrealistic expectations for love, romance and relationships.

Although I've written my share of romance novels, I beg to differ. I write romances for real every day women be they single, divorced, mothers in a relationship, married or looking for their soul mate. Eventually, I get to the boy meets girl angle but I begin with the main characters. 

In Not His Type, The More Things Change, Mixed Reality and Mulligans Match, the characters go through a process to love themselves  look at themselves through the loving eyes others do. In Bliss Inc, Waiting for Mr. Darcy, I Take This Woman and North of Forty, the main characters are confident women from the outset. However, they are cautious when it comes to love. Perhaps a little too cautious. The lesson is to take a leap of faith for love with the possibility of a few scrapes along the way but the scrapes are survivable and the leap worth it to find love that will thrive.

The common factor in my novels is I feature curvy main characters due to the lack of representation in most romances. Usually curvy characters are the funny second bananas or best friend who encourages the typical romantic heroine (thin, raven haired with a tiny waist) in her pursuit of "the one". I'm generalizing as there are many romance genres within romance. I'm referring to the ones on the bookstore shelves for romance when I was in high school.

Thankfully romance has expanded to encompass all tastes. I don't want romance readers to feel they can't read one of my books as I represent the curvy niche. I'm about love from the inside out and believe it or not there are some women who are size 8 and below with body issues. The fact is one can't truly love until they love the person looking back at them in the mirror. Once you do that's when real love and romance happens. So tell the guys romance writers are doing them a solid. There is nothing sexier than a confident woman and if she's on your arm all the better.

I write romance to get a spark. What happens next is up to the reader. It's more than possible you'll be on the road to live and love fully knowing the best is around every corner. 


 You can check out the books here: http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_i_1_14/175-3602793-4754514?url=search-alias%3Ddigital-text&field-keywords=chamein%20canton%20kindle&sprefix=chamein+canton%2Cdigital-text%2C191

Happy reading!